Congrats~ you got thru the resentment
list. But as you'll see, you are not done yet there's still more
work ahead of us. We just got that treasure chest out of the hole and
dusted off. Now let's look for the keys to open it up.
We left off
on pg 67 at the bottom paragraph. This section starts a brand new
inventory The Fear Inventory. So read this paragraph, a few times and look
hard again for those hidden instructions.
Here bill is talking about the
list on pg 66. And mr.. brown. - remember in the cause
area, mr. Brown told on this person to his wife.. starting off an
avalanche of fear. and then he listed that He may get his job. This
was in his resentment list, but it also a part of his list as well
because the FEAR was the catalyst for the resentments. So we once
again, use the same method to list our fears. Now, if you didn't realize
that, you'd missed it entirely. Many sponsors get their sponsee's confused
when it comes to that collum in the book and now you can see why. That's
why we have to have someone who Know's this program and who's worked all these
steps correctly to help us with them. So let's get this list going.
We List the Names,
I have my people write out the names on seperate
pages once again using the "names list" and if they need to they can add to that
list of names as they go through this. Often this is the case when we do a
Once they have the names done, and the names
are on each sheet again then we look at the book to see what's next.
We listed the names, even if there was no resentment attached to them...
we were afraid of them for what ever reason it didn't matter. Fights,
yelling, people and places we owed money to. If you can name it
and you're worried about it, or you're afraid of it put it down. List
all these people, places, and things qualify for this
Then we asked ourselves why we had them - (the feeling of
Again, bill gives an overview of the problem here, and then breaks
it down so read carefully.
Self reliance didn't fully solve the fear problem
or any other it made us cocky and it was worse as a result.
We are NOT ten
feet tall and bullet proof anymore though we once thought we were.
we looked to see, What part of it was ours to own..
use the same choices as
before once again..
Our next instruction - deals with fixing it.
trust in God rather than our finite selves. We pray about our fears now.
lot of sponsers tell us to use the Serenity Prayer for this one as we identify
He enables us to match calamity with serenity - remember we
are no longer the director today He is.
We now start to develop courage to do
things, and we can face our fears with his help daily.
The more we practice
this, the less the fear will have a grip over us.
doesn't it, it just takes some practice.
But in time, you'll feel more
comfortable in your own skin.
Then we read, Instead (of being afraid) we
let HIM demonstrate, through us, what HE CAN DO.
We ask HIM to remove our
fear and direct our attention to what HE WOULD HAVE US BE.
point, it was suggested to me to put down in writing the things I could change
in me about that fear. How to over come it more and be stronger if faced
with it again. That helped me emencely. I also went thru the
resentment list listing what I had learned from it, and how I could be better in
reguards to those names there as well.
Now, the reason why we do
this is simple. When we are working on our list, we have a tendancy to be
all depressed because up until this point, all we're looking at is the
negatives. But don't forget we have that good stock too. We just
need to front face it, and fill in the holes in that shelf with new products.
Thats where the changes come into play. We're adding stock to our