Ok, we've got our list done with
all the things that pissed us off. We also got our list of good qualities
and bad ones. Now you're woundering why that list is so important, well
when you find yourself in a funky mood and you want to run.. look at your good
stock - thats the stuff that sells, the stock in you that makes people what to
know you and be around you. So focus on it not the junk - we toss the out
of date crap out and that's what we are doing.. walking the isles and pulling
out the bad stock in us with the invotory today. Our first product was the
resentment because it's the easiest one to find. Including that rotten
ok.. so grab a bunch of paper and have it ready. When
my sponsor and I did this he had me do one name by the book. After which we
tried to do a 5th step with just that one name, i was so frustrated trying to
figure it out it wasn't funny. All the while he was just laughing which
really pissed me off. But it showed me that the way the book has it is strickly
for printing conveinance nothing more. He had me write the name of the
person one page per person until i got them all down. At first i thought he was
nuts. But you will see why in a moment.
The book tells us, and even has a
chart with 4 collums. If you look at it.. they've spaced the names
Again, because I didn't tell you about that.. you're names are one on top
of the other. So here's your next implied instruction.... Give yourself
room! So, we're going to give ourselves a lot of room - a full
So I have them write
out the names first..once that's done.. we go back to the first one.
Now real short and sweet "ask yourself why you are angery" and put
Doesnt have be a book.. just something
to jog your memory when you do you 5th about them and the situation. You Got
Room now.. so list em if you have to. So get that done first.
Ok.. remember on page 2 we had three things we were listing.. (another thing
sponsors forget here)
PEOPLE.. GOT THAT
But The book doesn't show it, I know.. but read the
instructions again carefully. WE listed ....What?
O'Yea you're right. That's why I had
you do it if you followed along with me here. Now you're starting to see
how easy it is to leave things out if you don't have help on this
Now we jot down or refer to the
book when it comes to our 3rd collum your choice in how it affected
you.. You can add to this list also if like don't worry, but these are
the major headers.
Poketbook - money
Ambitions - jobs promotions, goals ect.
relationships - hurt or
threatened (friends and aquaintances)
NOTICE.. THE OR on pg 65..
relations which had been interfered with - girlfriends wives x's cheating
Security - you almost missed this one too I'm
ok. so it should look like so: (with space below each)
ANGERY WHY (CAUSE)
CHOICES (AFFECTED ME HOW)
Now if you look at
the book, that's as far as it goes.. well that's wrong. Let me show
Pg 65, very bottom:
When we were finished we considered it
carefully. The first thing apparent... was we were pissed.
THE CENTER OF THE TOP PARAGRAPH ON 66...
WE STAYED SORE. ----- SOMETIMES IT
WAS REMORSE, AND THEN WE WERE SORE AT OURSELVES.
So right there,
is another name.. to add - OURSELF and why.
If you're a real angery person a
lot, read the second paragraph over and over till it sinks into your
WE SQUANDER THE HOURS THAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN WORTH WHILE.
Remember when I said, we're on a treasure hunt.. well you just hit the
chest. Now lets dig it out.
By reading to where it says "we turned back to